Should Your “Identity” and “Attractive Character” Be Different?

Should Your “Identity” and “Attractive Character” Be Different?

What’s the difference between your identity and your attractive character?

Some people get confused about this question, so let’s first define them.

1. Your identity is who you see yourself as.

It has different elements to it, and each element can be either private or public…

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All growth comes from this… [video]

It’s usually the stuff you don’t want to do that you’ve got to do, or that you should do that’s going to lead to a change. If you only do the things you want to do because they are easy or you are good at it, it’s never going to lead to a change or…

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Future Pacing and Why You Want to Use It

Future Pacing and Why You Want to Use It

Have you ever wondered what future pacing is exactly?

It comes from Neuro-Linguistic Programming or NLP.

NLP can kick in when you find a common ground with your audience, such as when telling your story or using effective sales copy. That’s how you grab their attention.

Future pacing is about getting people to imagine…

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WARNING: Don’t ever make fun of… [video]

Showing your humor can really help to build your attractive character with your followers. It can also be the death of your relationship with others. There will always be folks that just want to be offended and using appropriate humor can help to clean up your list. But there are just some things that you…

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You can’t make $1,000 an hour if you’re doing this… [video]

You cannot make $250, $500, or $1000 an hour if you’re doing $5 an hour work. If you’re engaged in activities that aren’t going to pay you at the level you want, you’re never gonna get paid at the level you want. The next time you’re fiddling around with graphics, your funnel or something that…

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Shorten the gap… [video]

Do you ever feel like you’re trying to get too much done in too little time? I find that when I’m really busy I seem to be able to get more things done. One of the things that I’ve noticed is that when I’m really busy, I’m shortening the gap… The gap between getting things…

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Can you be successful and still be a failure? [video]

Over the years I’ve noticed that success can be measured in many different ways. What I would define as success may not be remotely successful in your opinion. What is it in your mind that defines success? Is it money, love, fame, admiration or even respect? In my opinion it’s all things in balance… What…

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Does “paying it forward” really work? [video]

I realized that I’ve been “paying it forward” a lot this past week. Doing things for others without any expectation of being paid back or even being thanked. So, how do you know if it really works? Did you know that it can also be a very selfish act to “pay it forward”?   Do you…

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Re-Creation [video]

Recreation or re-creation? After having one of the busiest weekends I’ve had in awhile (I didn’t do any business work), I noticed that I was more rested this morning when it was time to work… even though I didn’t rest all weekend. I’m realizing that when I’m idle (resting) my mind is still focused on…

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“But I don’t waaaaana do it…” [video]

Do you ever hear your inner toddler whining about something that needs to get done? That thing that you really don’t feel like doing and have been putting off… Here’s my solution to getting the task done and putting the inner toddler down for a nap.  Does copywriting cause your inner toddler to come out?…

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